Mel, 58, is a busy mum of two grown up sons, and despite not having opportunities whilst at school, she now runs her own estate agency business with her husband, Steve. When Mel isn’t working, she loves to keep fit, attending her local leisure centre four times week doing yoga, Pilates, cardio sculpt, and Latin line dancing. Mel also started Irish set dancing with her sister in her 30’s which led her to perform in front of 500 people for St Patrick’s Day. Mel’s mother-in-law passed away in 2020 and whilst going through her things, Mel found an old sewing machine. Because of this, Mel now attends sewing classes at Windsor College and is creating lots of items such as tote bags, tissue holders, gift bags, curtains, blinds, and clothing in her part-office part-sewing room, aka her ‘woman cave’, making her late mother-in-law proud.
Mel knew she was suffering with hearing loss and tinnitus but felt she was too young to get help. She bravely made an appointment at Boots Hearingcare and hasn’t looked back since.
“I lived with an untreated hearing loss for 15 years before my hearing care journey started in 2022. I brushed it off in the beginning, but my hearing got progressively worse – I couldn’t hear anyone.”
“I began noticing my hearing loss when we went out to restaurants with friends, especially if it was a noisy environment, I could only hear the person next to me, but if the table was long and someone was sat in front of me, there was no chance I’d hear them. I was beginning to look at their lips and attempt to lip read instead. Rather than thinking into it, I just brushed it off as the restaurant being noisy and that everyone was struggling to hear, not just me. But my hearing just got worse, and worse.
“When lockdown hit and I had the TV on, I remember my husband saying to me ‘the sound of the TV is so loud!’ I had the volume on about 35, yet Steve, my husband, could hear it at volume 13. Again, instead of thinking I had a hearing loss, I just said to him ‘you’re different to me, you can hear a pin drop, I can’t’.
“After lockdown ended, I was so excited to get back out there and get back into bars and restaurants, but I soon realised my hearing was awful. I felt so isolated because I wasn’t part of people’s conversations. I couldn’t keep up with what they were saying. People spoke to me expecting a certain reply, but because I didn’t hear them properly, I gave them an unexpected, unrelated answer causing them to look at me funny. It was quite embarrassing really.
“I also had an instant worry that I was getting old. You only see old people with hearing aids and the ones that you think about are the big, chunky ones, I thought to myself ‘I don’t want to go down that road’, I was scared stiff and was very tearful. At that moment I hadn’t even turned 60 yet and I was still doing things young people do, like going to pubs, clubs, and bars, and just feared I was getting old before my time.
“The turning point for me was watching Kaye Adams on Loose Women, and listening to how she got her hearing tested at Boot Hearingcare and is now wearing a hearing aid. I thought ‘right, now is the time, let’s do it’.
“I went along to Boots Hearingcare and was told that I had a mild hearing loss. My audiologist, Helena, was so gentle and understanding, and made me feel relaxed. As well as hearing loss, I’ve had tinnitus for years and Helena is a tinnitus specialist, so she knew so much about it, and I really did learn a lot from her. Helena never tried to sell me any hearing aids, but she did want me to know how much they would benefit me. For example, when I put them on, Helena took me outside into the department store and I couldn’t believe the difference. I could hear people talking, I could turn my back and hear what has happening behind me, I remember thinking ‘this is unbelievable’. Since I had my appointment with Helena, I have encouraged my mum to get a hearing test and she now wears hearing aids too.
“I opted for the state-of-the-art Phonak hearing aids and really haven’t looked back. Now, I can go to busy pubs and bars, and I can hear people. What is great about them is that I can discreetly turn them up if I’m in a particularly loud environment. When I first found out I had a hearing loss, I never realised how funky the hearing aids could be, it’s also easier now than it once was to wear hearing aids, because everyone has something in their ear, like headphones, all the time. When Helena first handed me the hearing aids, I thought ‘is that it?’, I couldn’t believe how small they were, I was really surprised. I also love the fact that you can choose your hearing aids depending on the colour of your hair, it’s brilliant. Another thing I love about them is the connectivity. I bought Bluetooth headphones a while ago and I don’t even use them now because I can take my zoom calls via my hearing aids, it’s fantastic. I can also listen to music through them, talk to people on the phone through them, they do a lot more than I ever would have thought.
“My hearing aids have helped me to stay present at big events, I had a family wedding shortly after I had my hearing test and I was so worried I wouldn’t be able to hear, but thanks to my hearing aids I could hear the speeches, and everyone talking around me, it was great. I also do weekly dance classes where the teacher talks quietly and even with a microphone, I couldn’t hear her, but now with my hearing aids I can just discreetly turn them up and enjoy the class. My hearing aids are life-changing and have really opened my eyes to how bad my hearing was before.
“Going through this has made me encourage others who struggle to get their hearing tested. It really does change your life. Just go along to Boots Hearingcare and get tested, the first appointment only takes 15 minutes out of your day, what have you got to lose?”